Venus In Aquarius Natal Chart
Aquarius is the 11th sign of the zodiac and the last air sign. Ruled by Uranus, this is the sign of unpredictability and freedom. Aquarians are the embodiment of what most people consider weird.
These free-spirits march to the beat of a drum only they can hear. They’re intelligent people who think outside of the box and they’re great conversationalists. As an air sign, they live in their minds and prefer a mental connection. Aquarians go through life collecting eccentric friends and having interesting experiences the same way everyone else goes to work and comes home.
The extraordinary is a way of life for them. Known for not following traditional paths, Aquarians will figure out a way to make a living you’ve never even considered. If you know a person of this sign, try to keep them around.
Because they don’t discriminate, they have friends from all walks of life and although they may not look at this way, they’re highly connected. A get together thrown by an Aquarian could be a life altering experience.
They’re intellectual original thinkers. Having a casual conversation with an Aquarian has the potential to expand your mind beyond what you’d be able to come up with on your own.
Dating Someone With This Placement
With Venus residing in Aquarius, prepare yourself for an interesting experience. These people have a unique disposition on love and relationships. It’ll be more of a learning experience than anything else.
These people don’t take the traditional route to process their thoughts in love. Instead of going from A to B, they go from R to 13, and come out on the other end with analogies and philosophies that somehow make sense.
Don’t try to follow their trains of thought, just take what they say and make sense of it the best way you can. These people move in leaps and bounds when it comes to love and relationships. If you’re looking for a mentally stimulating connection this is the placement for you.
This placement isn’t overly emotional, and won’t process emotional displays well. To them, there’s simply no reason to lose control of yourself like that. And that’s the way they’ll process an emotional response or outburst; like you’ve lost control of yourself.
This placement is notorious for spreading the love so I wouldn’t get too emotionally involved until there is an agreed upon serious union taking place and that may take a while. This placement detests anything they believe to be a threat to their freedom in love.
They peer into other’s relationships and see people unhappy because of the restrictions they placed on themselves and they don’t see the reason for those outdated acrobatics.
This placement would be ok with inviting a third party into the relationship or even having a full blown open relationship from the beginning. This is the placement of unusual unions so if you’re interested in experiencing things you’ve only read about or seen in movies, now’s the time to speak up.
Usually, I’d offer some insight into how to put a smile on a placements face but with this placement, they’ll take care of that themselves. Simply put, either they like you or they don’t.
There’s nothing you can do to improve your chances just be your authentic self and if they want to be around you, they will. This isn’t a placement you can figure out or understand, just enjoy their presence while they’re around and see how it turns out.
Having This Placement
If your Venus is in Aquarius, you should consider writing a book about love and relationships. It’d be interesting. You have a unique perspective on love and relationships with a few out of the norm experiences to match.
For you, love is what love is and that’s just the way you see it but to the rest of us, you’re intriguing and original. You make your own path when it comes to relationships and you’re fiercely independent.
You value your freedom in relationships above all else and you enjoy interacting with different kinds of people.
Because you’re open minded when picking partners, You’ll grow exponentially because of experiences you’ll have with this eclectic mix of suitors. You enjoy the company of people from all walks of life and because you aren’t judgmental, they’ll flock to you to tell you their story.
Sometimes people just need a listening ear and you fit the bill. You don’t react to what people are saying, you aren’t emotional, and you don’t tell everything somebody tells you. You’re the perfect therapist.
As far as love and relationships go, giving advice isn’t generally your strong suit unless you’re talking to your more intellectually capable friends. You have a tendency to leap from one point to another instead of walk and you could mentally lose people in the process.
And when it comes to emotion in your relationships, you could stand to get some advice from some of your more emotionally in tune friends. You clearly aren’t emotional but having a basic understanding of how to interact with people who are, and understanding where they’re coming from, doesn’t require personal involvement on an emotional level.
You could read a few books about emotional interactions, emotional people, communicating how you feel in relationships, or watch classic romantic comedies with friends and comment on the parts you don’t understand. Emotions matter, they’re a part of your growth and development.
You can’t really move forward without developing that side of yourself along with the mental stuff. Emotions aren’t a sign of weakness, they’re simply another level of complexity that is the human condition.
On another note, you’re notoriously friendly when it comes to love and relationships, you’ll most likely experience lots and lots of suitors throughout your journey which has the potential to develop your insight into relationships.
Try to take the time to recognize patterns that are playing out in your love life and fix your mistakes or you could end up dancing the same dance over and over with different partners as the years pass by.
Your best Venus Matches are; Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius, and Leo
