Venus in Capricorn – Men and Women

Venus In Capricorn Natal Chart

Capricorn Is the last earth sign of the zodiac and it translates into their personality. Ruled by Saturn, this earth sign is serious and cautious in everything they do.

Capricorns are the middle aged adults of the zodiac. They have a steady, disciplined approach to life and while they may not be the most exciting people to know, they’re certainly some of the most reliable people you’d ever meet. 

Capricorns are goal oriented and they place a great deal of energy into their public persona. These people are driven to succeed and usually have the common sense to make it happen. They’re practical, mental people and prefer to keep their emotions bottled up. 

These people don’t get emotional. If by chance you happen to see the emotional side of a Capricorn, it would be a great time to step in and help them because they’re really in need. 

Under stressful conditions, they can be cold and pessimistic. That’s because this sign has a better safe than sorry disposition and they don’t see the point of being overly emotional. They end up attracting emotional mates who can become frustrated trying to get the Cap to open up and express themselves. 

Dating Someone With This Placement

When you put Venus in Capricorn, you get a serious, disciplined lover. Your partner takes love and relationships seriously and they expect their partner to as well. This placement wants a partner that looks good or is in some way desirable publically. 

Public persona is important to this placement so take care not to embarrass them in public. 

This is an earthy sign, so anything sensual will put you on their good side. In love, these people take a mental, practical approach. They’re going to need you help to get out of their own heads so think massages, sauna, hot baths, soft music, candles, and good food. 

If you put some thought into what you’re doing you can pull them out of their shells and get a glimpse of the inner child they keep locked up. These people have an entertaining sense of humor and become quite playful when they loosen up and feel safe.

Don’t be surprised if you end up in a wrestling move while your partner laughs as if it’s the funniest thing in the world. They have a playful nature but they’re so guarded you might not get to see it at work. 

This placement can be intimidating in love but keep a cool head. They can come across as arrogant, judgmental, and pessimistic but that’s just a defense mechanism to protect themselves.

Deep down, they want a partner to spend the rest of their lives with. Someone they can rely on, trust, and connect with. They have a vision in their heads of how they want things to be but they’re too reserved to go out and make it happen. 

Their undemonstrative nature has led to potential lifelong suitors walking out on them with the impression they never really cared in the first place. If you start to feel like this placement doesn’t care about you, the bad news is that if you’re waiting on some grand gesture or display, you’ll never get that.

You’re going to have to pay attention and look for more subtle clues. Slow and steady wins the race. If you’re looking for excitement you’re in the wrong place. 

Having This Placement

With your Venus in Capricorn, love and relationships are business. You’re going to have to step out of your shell a little to make things happen but that’s ok you’re for the challenge. 

Watch out for power struggles in your relationships and try not to let your ego dictate your behavior  too much. In matters of the heart you think highly of yourself and there’s nothing wrong with that but if you feel like you’re better than your partner, you should move on.

Don’t go into a relationship feeling like you’re doing someone a favor by knowing you. You’ve set your standards higher than most but that doesn’t mean you can’t get what you’re looking for. 

There’s a difference between settling and compromising. If you feel like you’ve settled, that’ll come up later in an unpleasant manor. Try to be honest with your partner and yourself from the beginning to save time and energy for both parties. 

You could find yourself lonely for a while, but that’s an opportunity to build a relationship with yourself. Use that time to figure out what you like. Take yourself out and get to know you so when the right person comes along, you’ll be more prepared.

You’re a mental person but you’re attracted to more emotional types. You’re going to have to learn to develop your emotional side and let your partner in. If they’ve met the requirements for a partnership, they deserve to have a connection to the person they’re in a relationship with and you can’t form a strong emotional connection with someone who is distant and emotionally reserved. 

Once you finally find someone you want to take seriously, lighten up. That inner adolescent is a gift your partner would very much enjoy. Take some time out and just let yourself go. Engage your senses to escape your mental state and indulge yourself. 

You have a tendency to keep secrets or to not be completely forth coming in your relationships. If you don’t trust your partner, find someone you do trust. For a person who takes relationships so seriously, you have a way of unnecessarily complicating things. 

Your ego plays a major part in your relationships but pride comes before the fall. If you don’t figure out a way to humble yourself when it comes to love and relationships, life will surely help you out with that. 

You aren’t hurt often because you don’t easily let someone in but when you’re hurt, it’s severe. 

If you’ve been hurt, take the proper amount of time to recover and take it seriously or it will ruin the rest of your relationships. 

Your best Venus matches are; Virgo, Scorpio, and Taurus.