Venus in the natal chart gives you insight into your attractions towards people and things. When Venus is in Aries this implies you have an attraction towards bold individuals, colors, and clothes. You have trouble making up your mind in love often tasting a little bit of everything on the menu.
Likes: As a Venus in Aries native you have a predisposition to like competitions and rivalries. You are okay with getting riled up from time to time. There is a wild streak about you that may have you finding yourself in very dramatic life situations. This placement is attracted to taking action, initiating relationships, and being first.
Dislikes: As a Venus in Aries person you dislike displays of weakness. You value strength both physical and emotional. You may actually be quite the softie on the inside, but with this Venus placement you often do what you can to conceal this fact from others!
Romance: Venus in Aries individuals will express their romantic side with innocence and openness. You will have an independent approach to love often desiring a life separate from your partner’s. It will be hard to win your heart as you prefer shorter interactions with lovers as opposed to lasting relationships.
Aries ♈︎ Ascendent in the Natal Chart
Astrological Body Part: Head & Face
Chart Ruling Planet: Mars
An Aries Ascendent or Rising sign individual is fiery and action oriented. You like to be first in everything and have a tendency to initiate interactions with others. You are typically the person who will say what other people are unwilling to point out. Aries is bold and unabashed. You have a leg up in social situations as you are not shy and able to speak your mind freely.
Style: Aries is associated with the head and face. With an Aries Ascendent you will most likely have a very beautiful face or distinct facial characteristics. You also are more likely to be athletic and have a muscular build as an Aries Rising. You tend to wear red, black, or white clothing preferring tight athletic or yoga fabrics that you can move freely in.
Talent: Mars is the ruling planet of your natal chart. With an overall Martian energy you have killer drive and stamina. You have a tendency to jumpstart new movements and take the lead. People value your honesty and ability to dive in head first. Aries on the ascendent gives you creative talent. You can spot trends, understand marketing, and psychology as you pick up on what drives people.
Midheaven in the Water Signs: Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces MC
The MC & IC
The Midheaven (MC) is a great indicator of your public status and your career in your natal chart. The MC is in the 10th House and this shows how comfortable a person is with speaking with the public, as well as, what would be his or her career.
When speaking about the MC we cannot forget about the IC, these are both opposites to each other, however, they both need to work together and please each other in a way, so that you are achieving your mission.
So, when looking at your midheaven, you cannot disregard your IC (which is in your fourth house). The IC represents what it is that your true desire and the midheaven shows how that will be done in the public world.
Your IC is what you internally keep to yourself, and who you realize you are (which is about 6 years old), and hide it from the world, however, your MC is what you show the world.
The IC also represents the father figure, while the MC represents the mother figure in your natal chart.
To know your MC, you must know your date of birth and the exact hour you were born. Your MC is not your solar sign. May I remind you that your MC is in your tenth house cusp, while your IC is in your fourth house cusp and despite being opposite from each other, they are both very connected.
Below is a description of MC in the fire signs, however, you should take into consideration what planets are matching your tenth house, as well as any other aspects that it might create. So, make sure to see if you have any other planets in your MC and if they are creating any other aspects with other planets as well.
Midheaven in Cancer
If your Midheaven is in Cancer, this means that your IC is in Capricorn. Growing up you were very restricted at home, and your parents made you work hard. The father figure might have been highly attached to work and money, not giving you the love and attention that you needed. This is why, when you grow up you learn to nurture, protect, and cherish other people, and the public in general as if they were your own family. This is why most people with Cancer Midheaven have a career that is related to taking care of other people, such as children and the elderly. These people are also great with the health field so you might even work at a hospital or rehab center. Since you are very sensitive to other people’s needs, most people can take advantage of you and make fun of your public image, however, you are mostly liked by everyone and some people envy you for that same reason. You secretly crave attention and recognition for what it is that you do and are always aiming towards that possible promotion.
Midheaven in Scorpio
If your Midheaven is in Scorpio, your IC is in Taurus and this means that growing up you were very concerned and connected your family and your family’s opinion. Depending on several aspects of your chart, this also might mean that you rebelled against them many times, however, growing up they value very much their family’s expectations which is why they feel the weight of the world on their shoulders, however, in terms of a career you aren’t submissive, which means that you don’t like to take orders and neither do you like to serve others. You like to be involved in things that require deep investigations and dark topics that are related to Scorpio. People with a Midheaven Scorpio are great psychiatrists because they have the capacity of hearing whatever it is, that others might consider taboo. They are also great investigators. They also like to feel in control of what they do and like to somehow control and persuade others which can make them great sales reps as well. People with Midheaven in Scorpio might also follow the same path as their family members.
Midheaven in Pisces
If your Midheaven is in Pisces, your IC is in Virgo and this means that growing up you were that child who was very reserved and enjoyed reading books, you’d also like to fix broken items. A family member might have been so detail-oriented and wanted everything to be perfect, and this didn’t allow you to always freely express yourself and recognize your emotions. This is why later in life, you find the need to escape reality through your career and this can be writing books, performing art, singing, playing in a band, acting, painting, and physical or spiritual healing. Your career is built mostly on your emotions, and how you express them which to some is a gift, but to others might be challenging. Since Pisces is in the house of public persona, your reputation might also suffer from criticism now and then. However, in whatever it is that you do, most people can relate to you and you are very receptive to other people’s energies.
Let us know where your MC is and if you can relate to these descriptions in the comments. We look forward to hearing your feedback!
Midheaven in the Fire Signs: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius MC
The MC & IC
The Midheaven (MC) is a great indicator of your public status and your career in your natal chart. The MC is in the 10th House and this shows how comfortable a person is with speaking with the public, as well as, what would be his or her career.
When speaking about the MC we cannot forget about the IC, these are both opposites to each other, however, they both need to work together and please each other in a way, so that you are achieving your mission.
So, when looking at your midheaven, you cannot disregard your IC (which is in your fourth house). The IC represents what it is that your true desire and the midheaven shows how that will be done in the public world.
Your IC is what you internally keep to yourself, and who you realize you are (which is about 6 years old), and hide it from the world, however, your MC is what you show the world.
The IC also represents the father figure, while the MC represents the mother figure in your natal chart.
To know your MC, you must know your date of birth and the exact hour you were born. Your MC is not your solar sign. May I remind you that your MC is in your tenth house cusp, while your IC is in your fourth house cusp and despite being opposite from each other, they are both very connected.
Below is a description of MC in the fire signs, however, you should take into consideration what planets are matching your tenth house, as well as any other aspects that it might create. So make sure to see if you have any other planets in your MC and if they are creating any other aspects with other planets as well.
Midheaven in Aries
If your Midheaven is in Aries this means that your IC is in Libra, you crave harmony and balance. You praise beauty and peace between family members. You have this need to feel special and to please everyone around you especially the public, you have this urge of getting out, however, you analyze well all of your options and brainstorm well before doing so. A lot of people might underestimate you, however, you have been born with great talent, and you have a great way of showing others how wrong they are. At some point in your life, you will show how strong you are to the public in whatever it is that you do. People see you as this strong independent person and who is not submissive. In terms of career, Midheaven in Aries needs to own his or her career, needs to be recognized, and you need to lead whatever it is that you do. With a Libra IC, there is a high possibility that your career is beauty oriented, or you might even be some kind of a beauty icon or model.
Midheaven in Leo
If you Midheaven is in Leo this means that your IC is in Aquarius, you crave justice and you have felt very restricted growing up. This is why your Leo Midheaven provides you with the will of showing people who you are. Since you’ve lived mostly restricted due to your IC, it is no surprise that now you are free, that you will show who you are and live what you weren’t able to live. So, in the public eye, many people will see you as this young spirit who shines, you have a great gift at creating the big picture in whatever you do and achieving your goals. In whatever it is that you do, you are extremely creative and need to express yourself through what is innovative and original. Above all, you need to be recognized and you do not tolerate any lack of respect, especially regarding your work. You are extremely loyal to who you are and to others, you are a hard-working person who will do everything in your power to achieve your goals, however, never disrespecting or stepping over others. Leo in the midheaven is what we call the superstar position because just like any superstar or celebrity you own the stage, and you need to feel that you are admired by fans or followers. Some of MC Leos are great at vlogging and have many followers for example.
Midheaven in Sagittarius
Midheaven in Sagittarius means that your IC is in Gemini, meaning that you have always enjoyed communicating with yourself when growing up. You were probably one of those kids who would write every day in a journal or write even letters or big text messages. Your midheaven grants you with spirituality and philosophical views and bright energy, you love to communicate, and you are very outgoing. As a child, you had struggled to communicate with others, however, as growing up you will notice that this is what you truly want, you want a career that allows you to express yourself freely and even share knowledge with others. Most of you might be teachers, mentors, explorers, or even astrologers. Your Gemini IC grants you with the will to learn, while your MC Sagittarius provides you with the gift of teaching others what you’ve learned as well. You are highly loyal to what you believe in, and you work hard for what it is that you want to achieve in life. People see you as the wise one, with positive energy and a positive mindset, however, you shall be careful because your curiosity can lead you to do things that may give you a bad reputation, despite that, you have all it takes to achieve your goals and mission in life.
Let us know where your MC is and if you can relate to these descriptions in the comments. We look forward to hearing your feedback!
Midheaven in the Air Signs: Gemini, Libra, Aquarius MC
The MC & IC
The Midheaven (MC) is a great indicator of your public status and your career in your natal chart. The MC is in the 10th House and this shows how comfortable a person is with speaking with the public, as well as, what would be his or her career.
When speaking about the MC we cannot forget about the IC, these are both opposites to each other, however, they both need to work together and please each other in a way, so that you are achieving your mission.
So, when looking at your midheaven, you cannot disregard your IC (which is in your fourth house). The IC represents what it is that your true desire and the midheaven shows how that will be done in the public world.
Your IC is what you internally keep to yourself, and who you realize you are (which is about 6 years old), and hide it from the world, however, your MC is what you show the world.
The IC also represents the father figure, while the MC represents the mother figure in your natal chart.
To know your MC, you must know your date of birth and the exact hour you were born. Your MC is not your solar sign. May I remind you that your MC is in your tenth house cusp, while your IC is in your fourth house cusp and despite being opposite from each other, they are both very connected.
Below is a description of MC in the fire signs, however, you should take into consideration what planets are matching your tenth house, as well as any other aspects that it might create. So, make sure to see if you have any other planets in your MC and if they are creating any other aspects with other planets as well.
Midheaven in Gemini
With Midheaven in Gemini, this means that your IC is in Sagittarius. Growing up you have felt as if you were not part of your home for some reason. Throughout your childhood you would read a lot of books or connect to spirituality is someway. Growing up you tend to socialize more and more, you are a great communicator and what I like to call the great “messenger” you have a great way of communicating what is new, almost as if you were a journalist (which might be the case). Your Sagittarius IC allows you to want to be recognized for your knowledge and communication, you are very outgoing and ambitious in whatever it is that you do. Your career most certainly involves being in a social group, socializing, communicating, social media, telephones, or even transportation since these are things that Gemini rules.
Midheaven in Libra
With Midheaven in Libra, your IC is in Aries. Growing up, you have always felt the need to lead, and own yourself, you learned how to do most things on your own. With Midheaven in Libra, this is a great indicator that you a very social and seek harmony. You seek justice and enjoy working towards what is fair, which is why you may even be a lawyer or judge who will analyze things thoroughly in a neutral way providing a fair solution keeping the peace between everyone. Bottom line is that you look to keep the peace between people and come up with just the right solution for everyone in whatever it is that you do for a living. Despite your Aries IC, you are not competitive nor demanding. You have this awesome gift of pleasing others with your charming and beautiful looks, and you are very artistic as well. Your beautiful looks can also get many interested in you for the wrong reasons, so we advise that you be careful with Libra in the house of your public reputation when it comes to love affairs and relationships. Despite this, you have great communication skills and you are great at persuading others.
Midheaven in Aquarius
With Midheaven in Aquarius, your IC is in Leo. Growing up you were very talented and artistic, you expressed yourself very well and craved the attention, and received it. IC in Leo is a blessing because you know how much you are worth and that you are deserving of attention, however, you felt as if you carried the weight of the world on your shoulders since most people would have high expectations. With an Aquarius Midheaven, you have the gift of observing and finding what people need. With Aquarius in the midheaven, it is no surprise that you work towards getting what people need in innovative ways. You are not the kind of person who will work at a desk from 9 AM to 5 PM, you will easily get bored. You need a reason to wake up in the morning and know that you are going to work to help others. You are not a fan of a demanding environment, neither do you like rules, meaning that you enjoy working on your own, without having to follow a normal schedule and rules. A Midheaven in Aquarius is the kind of person who will work fighting to achieve what other’s needs, and then can be done through several ways, you might be a politician, a scientist who develops medicine, you might work for associations that fight for people that certain needs. Some might find what you do weird, and at the public eye, you might seem like a person who isn’t “normal” and you enjoy that, as long as your work is appreciated and recognized by others and that it serves a higher purpose which is helping others.
Let us know where your MC is and if you can relate to these descriptions in the comments. We look forward to hearing your feedback!
Midheaven in the Earth Signs: Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn MC
The MC & IC
The Midheaven (MC) is a great indicator of your public status and your career in your natal chart. The MC is in the 10th House and this shows how comfortable a person is with speaking with the public, as well as, what would be his or her career.
When speaking about the MC we cannot forget about the IC, these are both opposites to each other, however, they both need to work together and please each other in a way, so that you are achieving your mission.
So, when looking at your midheaven, you cannot disregard your IC (which is in your fourth house). The IC represents what it is that your true desire and the midheaven shows how that will be done in the public world.
Your IC is what you internally keep to yourself, and who you realize you are (which is about 6 years old), and hide it from the world, however, your MC is what you show the world.
The IC also represents the father figure, while the MC represents the mother figure in your natal chart.
To know your MC, you must know your date of birth and the exact hour you were born. Your MC is not your solar sign. May I remind you that your MC is in your tenth house cusp, while your IC is in your fourth house cusp and despite being opposite from each other, they are both very connected.
Below is a description of MC in the fire signs, however, you should take into consideration what planets are matching your tenth house, as well as any other aspects that it might create. So, make sure to see if you have any other planets in your MC and if they are creating any other aspects with other planets as well.
Midheaven in Taurus
If your Midheaven is in Taurus, then this means that your IC is in Scorpio. Growing up you have had a hard time growing up, especially regarding your body. You have been controlled most part of your life, and not allowing you to be free and discover yourself. With Midheaven in Taurus, you crave security and stability, especially regarding your career. You are a hard worker, and you achieve exactly what you have desired throughout life through your job. You might have a hard time balancing home and your work, however, you do the best you can to make sure that your spot is secure at your job and that you are needed. Since the sign ruled by Venus is in your midheaven there is a high possibility that you are a great artist, actor, or that you work a lot with money, jewelry, or any kind of entertainment such as singing or dancing, or even beauty salons. Whatever it is that you do for a living, you need to have a great income and perhaps one that can increase often.
Midheaven in Virgo
If your Midheaven is in Virgo, this means that your IC is in Pisces. Growing up, you were brought up by parents who were very creative, artistic but also very sensitive, your childhood might have been very confusing. You were very receptive to other people’s energy and had a need to please people around you, with the fear that they would no longer like you. With a Midheaven in Virgo, this means that you have a great eye for details, and you are very perfectionist. You enjoy analyzing and search the logic behind things. You crave routine and organization, you are also very critical and enjoy being recognized on how smart you are. So, it is no surprise, that in terms of a career you seek something of which these traits are useful. You can be an accountant, someone who organizes files or a home for a living, someone who is an inspector, and needs to find flaws and gaps. In whatever it is that you do, you don’t want to be on stage or seek the spotlight, however, you want to be acknowledged on how smart and how perfectionist you are, and above all, you need to feel useful.
Midheaven in Capricorn
If your Midheaven is in Capricorn, this means that your IC is in Cancer. Growing up you were very sensitive to other people’s needs, and you were nourished by your mother, you were lucky and blessed as a child and had an ideal family. So, with Capricorn in your Midheaven, you crave to be recognized through your career. You are great with rules and very disciplined, which is why you are easily promoted in whatever it is that you do. You are very cautious with your personal image and admire other people’s efforts, you are also an expert at managing money and people in general. Which is why you are great CIOs, CEOs, or you can be involved somehow with law. In whatever it is that you do, you are great at planning, and avoiding flaws, and sticking to the rules. You need to feel admired for what you do, and have a good public image, however, as mentioned before you don’t crave the attention just the recognition for the great job that you’ve done. You are very successful and a hard worker, however, you need to learn how to balance your home life with your career, since we know how you can go home and continue working leaving out your time to rest and be with the family.
Let us know where your MC is and if you can relate to these descriptions in the comments. We look forward to hearing your feedback!
So, we have all been there, we have all hit hard on the floor with so much pain that we have never thought we would be able to overcome. This pain can be a result of someone who has deeply betrayed you, or from a permanent loss of someone who has departed forever, it can be because you’ve worked so hard for something and that it has been delayed and for many other reasons. We have all had those moments where we only wanted out, and there was no way in soothing the pain. It is interesting how we are all different and we all react in different ways. Some people enjoy mourning alone, take time, and think about certain situations, while others act impulsively and seek revenge. Others escape reality by writing, reading, performing while others escape reality in unhealthy ways. Some of us are ok with showing our pain to others and communicating it, while others are extremely embarrassed and uncomfortable by doing so.
Some tend to think that the problem is in them, while others search to find a reason as to why this happens.
The bottom line is everyone hurts at some time, for some reason, and you are not alone. We all are unique in how we suffer and express ourselves. Of course, there is no quick solution to when we are in pain. Life does not provide you a quick pill that can ease the pain, however, life is not all about pain, it is about the moments you create and how you choose to view each situation. Everything that happens to us affects us as a person and our emotions towards others. It is important to accept that each painful situation is a lesson, although it is better said than done.
On this article, we focus on strategies to ease your pain based on your zodiac sign. Now, of course, this varies depending on other factors in your natal chart. In this case, we suggest that you consider your Moon and your Mars, so take a look at those two planets in your natal charts and see what signs those are in, this will help you get a better understanding, however, if you relate and identify yourself very much with your solar sign you can consider that as well.
Aries
If you are an Aries, I am sure you can relate very much to this description. When you are hurt, it’s as if someone has punched you in the face, even if they haven’t. Your pride does not allow you to manifest why you are hurt in a quiet calm way. Your temper and force need to be at use most of the time, you have this urge to let all of your anger out, and let’s be honest here, you’d love to hurt the person who did this to you, but of course, that isn’t the right thing to do. If you are like most Aries I know, you want to fight the first person you see, and it is normal to feel angry. Since you are ruled by Mars the planet of War, of course, you need to battle and conquer, but let’s face the truth, by getting physically into a fight, you will end up with more damage and more trouble. So before taking that impulsive step we consider that you put your rage towards other activities such as sports that involve competition, screaming, and getting all that negative anger out of you. I am sure that by the second you listen to some music through your headphones and go outside to take a simple walk or to run that you will feel immediately better. Now, of course, we are not considering that this will solve immediately the pain that you are feeling, however, as we have said before, there is no easy way out of pain. It is learning to accept the fact that you cannot change what has happened, accept it as a lesson and learn to move on through what you do with your time.
Your passion and competitive ways are useful while practicing sports, you were granted with the gift of going to war without any second thoughts and this is exactly what you need, take the time to search for sports or any physical activity that will tire you by the end of the day, and allow you to drain all of that anger and rage by the end of the day.
Take the time to acknowledge what it is that you are feeling, write it down even if you have to, don’t try to blame others for your pain, and accept that everyone surrounding you is not part of the problem. We know how hurtful you can be towards other people that have nothing to do with what you are going through. So, be careful to not hurt others as well. You above all zodiac signs, you are very impatient and have a hard time dealing with negative feelings because you seek quick solutions, however, you have a great determination that many desire, and when you are determined to do whatever you want to do, or to overcome any obstacle you have everything that it takes to do so.
Aries, believe in yourself more than ever and do not second guess your value based on your pain, and do not find the need to show that you have strength by getting into unnecessary fights. Instead, use your will power towards healthy activities and we assure you that you will be successful.
As we all know, time is the only true “pill” in life to cure a wound, but it is what you do with the time that allows yourself to heal.
So, we have all been there, we have all hit hard on the floor with so much pain that we have never thought we would be able to overcome. This pain can be a result of someone who has deeply betrayed you, or from a permanent loss of someone who has departed forever, it can be because you’ve worked so hard for something and that it has been delayed and for many other reasons. We have all had those moments where we only wanted out, and there was no way in soothing the pain. It is interesting how we are all different and we all react in different ways. Some people enjoy mourning alone, take time, and think about certain situations, while others act impulsively and seek revenge. Others escape reality by writing, reading, performing while others escape reality in unhealthy ways. Some of us are ok with showing our pain to others and communicating it, while others are extremely embarrassed and uncomfortable by doing so.
Some tend to think that the problem is in them, while others search to find a reason as to why this happens.
The bottom line is everyone hurts at some time, for some reason, and you are not alone. We all are unique in how we suffer and express ourselves. Of course, there is no quick solution to when we are in pain. Life does not provide you a quick pill that can ease the pain, however, life is not all about pain, it is about the moments you create and how you choose to view each situation. Everything that happens to us affects us as a person and our emotions towards others. It is important to accept that each painful situation is a lesson, although it is better said than done.
On this article, we focus on strategies to ease your pain based on your zodiac sign. Now, of course, this varies depending on other factors in your natal chart. In this case, we suggest that you consider your Moon and your Mars, so take a look at those two planets in your natal charts and see what signs those are in, this will help you get a better understanding, however, if you relate and identify yourself very much with your solar sign you can consider that as well.
Taurus Wounds
If you are a Taurus, you know how calm and patient you are, you have this beautiful vibe to you that allows others to feel relaxed around you, and it is a hard task hurting you for this same reason. You do not hurt easily, and it is hard for others to hurt you because you are very loyal! However, some people take advantage of how calm you are, and at some point, you can lose your patience, and that’s when I suggest to whoever it is that is in front of you to run. I like to compare the Taurus exactly to its symbol, if you poke a Taurus once, he won’t mind it, poke him twice it will try to ignore you, but once you’ve crossed that line there is no way you’ll see a relaxed and usual Taurus. It takes a lot to get a Taurus hurt, but whenever a Taurus does get hurt, he has every right to be.
Taurus when you are hurt, you hold negative feelings towards the people that have hurt you and you have the the hardest time in letting go of those feelings. A part of you wants to communicate with that person, on the other hand, another part of you has this hard time letting go of the fact that he or she hurt you.
You aren’t an impulsive sign, and we are sure that you already know how to manage those feelings, however our advice to you is to not let your feelings accumulate in such a way and explode last minute. Try to express what it is that you are feeling, and accept change (which we all know you have the hardest time accepting), but accept that everything happens for a reason and that sometimes change is needed to learn, and progress.
Do not avoid your feelings, and fill the the gap with pleasures such as food, or purchasing luxurious items, Instead, learn how to get out your comfort zone, learn how to deal with these feelings that you are experiencing, and why it is that you feel the way you do. You above all people, do not want to discuss anything that will cause chaos or conflicts, and we understand that you love keeping the peace, but sweeping dirt under the rug only works for a minimum amount of time.
Learn to accept what others do and feel as well, as we know how stubborn you are at times. You are entitled to what you believe in, but other people might have a point as well. So learn to accept advice from wise people around you, those who you admire, and who has always been loyal to you.
Instead of avoiding your feelings, learn to express them through healthy activities that bring out the best in you. You have a great talent since you are ruled by the planet of Venus (planet of entertainment and love) so use that talent to express your feelings, and do not avoid those feelings.
Do not hold on to items that no longer serve you well, we know you have the hardest time of letting go of items, pictures and gifts that are attached to precious memories but at some point, we need to learn to keep those memories in our heart and in our minds when they no longer serve us well.
As we all know, time is the only true “pill” in life to cure a wound, but it is what you do with the time that allows yourself to heal. As a Taurus, you are granted with the gift of patience and we know that you are capable of accepting and being patient throughout this process of healing your wound.
So, we have all been there, we have all hit hard on the floor with so much pain that we have never thought we would be able to overcome. This pain can be a result of someone who has deeply betrayed you, or from a permanent loss of someone who has departed forever, it can be because you’ve worked so hard for something and that it has been delayed and for many other reasons. We have all had those moments where we only wanted out, and there was no way in soothing the pain. It is interesting how we are all different and we all react in different ways. Some people enjoy mourning alone, take time, and think about certain situations, while others act impulsively and seek revenge. Others escape reality by writing, reading, performing while others escape reality in unhealthy ways. Some of us are ok with showing our pain to others and communicating it, while others are extremely embarrassed and uncomfortable by doing so.
Some tend to think that the problem is in them, while others search to find a reason as to why this happens.
The bottom line is everyone hurts at some time, for some reason, and you are not alone. We all are unique in how we suffer and express ourselves. Of course, there is no quick solution to when we are in pain. Life does not provide you a quick pill that can ease the pain, however, life is not all about pain, it is about the moments you create and how you choose to view each situation. Everything that happens to us affects us as a person and our emotions towards others. It is important to accept that each painful situation is a lesson, although it is better said than done.
On this article, we focus on strategies to ease your pain based on your zodiac sign. Now, of course, this varies depending on other factors in your natal chart. In this case, we suggest that you consider your Moon and your Mars, so take a look at those two planets in your natal charts and see what signs those are in, this will help you get a better understanding, however, if you relate and identify yourself very much with your solar sign you can consider that as well.
Gemini
If you are a Gemini, you are great at communicating with others, very sociable and enjoy spreading the news; however, when you are hurt this is not always the case.
When you are hurt, you do not evaluate what others might feel, nor do you think that it is normal to feel anything at all. You try to see the logic behind it, and you can sometimes be very malicious while doing so.
To you, it is all about what is rational, and you have a hard time with emotions. At some point, you even try to avoid them. Reality is that not everything has to have a logical sense, we all have emotions and react in different ways. When you are hurt, you are confused as to why you feel what you are feeling, so most of you might speak up in a grumpy way or be a bit moody throughout this process.
You sometimes have a bad habit of being disrespectful towards others when you feel this way as if they were to blame. Please take the time to evaluate your feelings and to avoid this from happening.
You are also a champ at avoiding your feelings through spending your time in doing whatever it is that you like, or getting involved in learning new things, and do not get me wrong! This is a great habit, however, avoiding your feelings is not a great solution.
This does not mean that you’ve healed, this just means that you’re avoiding going through that rollercoaster of emotions that you need to go through and overcome once and for all.
You are great communicators as mentioned before, but when it comes to emotions you have a hard way of communicating what it is that you feel at times, just because you can’t identify well to those emotions without analyzing why it is that you’re feeling this way and why it might not be rational of you to feel this way. You need to learn that these emotions are normal, what you feel is normal, and it is not mandatory to find a logical reason as to why you feel this way.
During this process, we highly advise you that you take your time to put at practice what you were blessed with which is communication, and even if this means communicating through writing. Start to right down what it is that you are feeling, write as if you were writing to that the person who has departed, or a letter to the person who has hurt you. Even if this means, that you must go somewhere, a short distance trip alone, in nature or in a nearby city to do so. When you are done with writing this all down, acknowledge your feelings and if you are ok with saving whatever it is that you’ve written do so, the next day, take a look at it to see how you still feel about it, and this will help you deal with your emotions as to why it is you are feeling what you feel.
You above all zodiac signs have a hard time with your emotions, most people think of you like that person that has it all together and who is always extremely playful, but deep down you know that isn’t always the case and you have a hard time showing the world that this isn’t always you.
Life’s only “pill” to curing a wound is time and it is not just time itself, but it’s what you do with your time that matters. In your case, Gemini, do not avoid your feelings by filling your schedule with fun activities, take the time to learn how to deal with your emotions rather than ignoring them.
So, we have all been there, we have all hit hard on the floor with so much pain that we have never thought we would be able to overcome. This pain can be a result of someone who has deeply betrayed you, or from a permanent loss of someone who has departed forever, it can be because you’ve worked so hard for something and that it has been delayed and for many other reasons. We have all had those moments where we only wanted out, and there was no way in soothing the pain. It is interesting how we are all different and we all react in different ways. Some people enjoy mourning alone, take time, and think about certain situations, while others act impulsively and seek revenge. Others escape reality by writing, reading, performing while others escape reality in unhealthy ways. Some of us are ok with showing our pain to others and communicating it, while others are extremely embarrassed and uncomfortable by doing so.
Some tend to think that the problem is in them, while others search to find a reason as to why this happens.
The bottom line is everyone hurts at some time, for some reason, and you are not alone. We all are unique in how we suffer and express ourselves. Of course, there is no quick solution to when we are in pain. Life does not provide you a quick pill that can ease the pain, however, life is not all about pain, it is about the moments you create and how you choose to view each situation. Everything that happens to us affects us as a person and our emotions towards others. It is important to accept that each painful situation is a lesson, although it is better said than done.
In this article, we focus on strategies to ease your pain based on your zodiac sign. Now, of course, this varies depending on other factors in your natal chart. In this case, we suggest that you consider your Moon and your Mars, so take a look at those two planets in your natal charts and see what signs those are in, this will help you get a better understanding, however, if you relate and identify yourself very much with your solar sign you can consider that as well.
Cancer
If you are a Cancer, we all know how protective you are of the ones you love. You put family first, and you treat your true friends as if they were family. You care for people as if they were part of you. You are great at expressing your feelings, but for this same reason, people consider you to be a bit moody.
You are highly sensitive, which means that you might be offended by things that other people won’t understand why, when your hurt, you tend to not speak out loud about it to avoid issues, however, just like the element water you are very clear and people can see right through you that something is odd about you. At the exact moment, someone asks you what is wrong, you burst down into tears or suddenly burst your anger because you have held on for too long to those feelings inside of you. Similar to Taurus, you will be patient and allow other people to take advantage of that, but not for too long, there will come a time where you no longer can hold it in.
Some consider you to be the cry baby, but we consider this a blessing to allow your emotions to manifest through tears, allowing you to not avoid it internally and react. This is a healthy process, that allows you to recognize your emotions, and as those tears drop relieving the pain drop by drop.
Cancer you are usually associated with a mother figure, and known for your ability to nurture and care for people, which is true, however, some people just see you as that pouting person who is hurt often, and there is more to you than just that.
Your beautiful and caring energy isn’t similar to others, and not everyone can understand that you feel things in such a way that not even you can ignore those feelings or distract yourself from them.
You have a hard time of letting go of whatever it is that hurts you when you are hurt, you struggle with distracting yourself from the thoughts, you also have a very good photographic memory, so you replay the scenes in your head over and over again. Not allowing you to get rid of negative thoughts and feelings.
When you are hurt, accept the process that you were designed for, allow yourself to cry and accept that this is not embarrassing or childish as other people describe it to be. Do not let it get to the point where you burst, address and speak up about what it is that is hurting you, instead of holding it all in until the point where you can no longer breathe.
Allow others to take care of you when you need it the most, allow yourself to feel the warmth of a hug from that special person who is willing to listen and care for you at that moment, you need to feel supported and even if this means that you need to travel just to get near the people you love, you should.
You above all signs, hurt and replay in your head whatever it is that is hurting you for days, weeks, months and even years, you have the hardest time of letting go and releasing the pain no matter how hard you try, which is why you should learn to accept, and above all forgive. Forgiving doesn’t mean that you go back to how things were, but that you’ve accepted that there was nothing that you could do to change the past and that you’ve accepted this as a lesson in life.
Life’s only “pill” to curing a wound is time and it is not just time itself, but it’s what you do with your time that matters. In your case Cancer, we know hurt you can be, and not everyone understands this, but the people that do are worth keeping forever in your life and allow them to nurture and care for you during these times.
Jupiter, Saturn, Neptune, & Uranus in the 12th House
Understanding which planets are in our houses is essential, we can understand why we go through certain obstacles in life and understand what it is that we must improve.
So, before you read this article, we advise that you look at your natal chart, where your planets are placed and if any of them are in your houses.
So, for example, You Jupiter is in Libra and you are a Libra ascendant (look at the degrees as well) this means that your Jupiter is in the first house.
Below is a description of planets that indicate which karma you’ve gained through past lives, this will help you understand what errors you’ve committed in the past, as well as, what it is that you need to overcome in this life.
The 12th House
The 12 house is a complex house, it is the house that represents Karma, it is where you look at to figure out what his hidden and what is dug into your subconscious mind from past lives. This is the house of your unjustified fears and trauma, carried from the life you have once lived but do not recall. This is the house of your enemies and your dark side, your psychological mind, this is the house of sleep and dreams.
This house is a great indicator of who we are, our traits, where we lived in the past life.
If there are planets in this house, or if the ruler of this house is not comfortable or not well aspected, this means that the person has a tendency of committing the same mistakes repeatedly. People with planets in the natal 12th house struggle with their family and home, they may also have several memories from past lives which they struggle to understand in this life.
When your ascendant is the ruler of the 12th House, this means that your soul will go through twice the struggle to overcome obstacles, in the same circumstances and in the same family, and most likely in the same country that his or her soul lived in the past life.
Jupiter in the 12th House
Jupiter in the 12th house indicates a person who was wealthy and did so little to help out those in need, in this life, he or she will struggle with having very little to spend but with a great desire to help others. It is important that this person realizes that the more he or she gives, the more he or she receives.
Saturn in the 12th House
Saturn in the 12th House indicates a person who was distanced from everyone, and never creating connection with people. This was a person who lived to learn and never shared his or her knowledge. In this life, this person will find him or herself obligated to connect with people to progress.
Uranus in the 12th House
Uranus in the 12th House indicates a person who had a free spirit, who was rebel and never really followed the rules. In this life, this person will struggle to feel free. This is a person who you would normally find working in closed spaces such as prisons, or rehab centers or even captured and locked down against his or her will away from society.
Neptune in the 12th House
Neptune in the 12th House represents an old soul, so this means that if the 12th house does not have any other negative placements, that this soul is on its way to accomplishing internally it’s mission. However, if this is not the case, this indicates a person who tends to escape from reality, might have illusions, might daydream, or see things that are not there. In this life, this person is inclined to figuring out about his or her past life for several reasons, he or she might do this through therapy, or hypnosis, however this person chooses to try to figure this out, he or she may find that it is an obstacle in understanding what it is, this person also struggles with understanding his or her mission in this life time.
The twelfth house is a very delicate house, and a great indicator of what your past mistakes were. If you are highly interested in to understanding what was done in your past life, we suggest you have a natal chart reading with someone who is certified in karmic astrology, other methods such as hypnosis or reiki are great to solve past life traumas and filter your chakra energies allowing you to cleanse your Karma.
The first real step to cleansing your Karma is being aware, and we trust that we have provided you with just the right information. Let us know how you can relate to this, where is your 12th House? Have you ever experienced anything different or do you have any traumas? Have you solved them? We look forward to hearing all about what you have to say about this.
