Gemini Sun Wounds and How To Heal
So, we have all been there, we have all hit hard on the floor with so much pain that we have never thought we would be able to overcome. This pain can be a result of someone who has deeply betrayed you, or from a permanent loss of someone who has departed forever, it can be because you’ve worked so hard for something and that it has been delayed and for many other reasons. We have all had those moments where we only wanted out, and there was no way in soothing the pain. It is interesting how we are all different and we all react in different ways. Some people enjoy mourning alone, take time, and think about certain situations, while others act impulsively and seek revenge. Others escape reality by writing, reading, performing while others escape reality in unhealthy ways. Some of us are ok with showing our pain to others and communicating it, while others are extremely embarrassed and uncomfortable by doing so.
Some tend to think that the problem is in them, while others search to find a reason as to why this happens.
The bottom line is everyone hurts at some time, for some reason, and you are not alone. We all are unique in how we suffer and express ourselves. Of course, there is no quick solution to when we are in pain. Life does not provide you a quick pill that can ease the pain, however, life is not all about pain, it is about the moments you create and how you choose to view each situation. Everything that happens to us affects us as a person and our emotions towards others. It is important to accept that each painful situation is a lesson, although it is better said than done.
On this article, we focus on strategies to ease your pain based on your zodiac sign. Now, of course, this varies depending on other factors in your natal chart. In this case, we suggest that you consider your Moon and your Mars, so take a look at those two planets in your natal charts and see what signs those are in, this will help you get a better understanding, however, if you relate and identify yourself very much with your solar sign you can consider that as well.
Gemini
If you are a Gemini, you are great at communicating with others, very sociable and enjoy spreading the news; however, when you are hurt this is not always the case.
When you are hurt, you do not evaluate what others might feel, nor do you think that it is normal to feel anything at all. You try to see the logic behind it, and you can sometimes be very malicious while doing so.
To you, it is all about what is rational, and you have a hard time with emotions. At some point, you even try to avoid them. Reality is that not everything has to have a logical sense, we all have emotions and react in different ways. When you are hurt, you are confused as to why you feel what you are feeling, so most of you might speak up in a grumpy way or be a bit moody throughout this process.
You sometimes have a bad habit of being disrespectful towards others when you feel this way as if they were to blame. Please take the time to evaluate your feelings and to avoid this from happening.
You are also a champ at avoiding your feelings through spending your time in doing whatever it is that you like, or getting involved in learning new things, and do not get me wrong! This is a great habit, however, avoiding your feelings is not a great solution.
This does not mean that you’ve healed, this just means that you’re avoiding going through that rollercoaster of emotions that you need to go through and overcome once and for all.
You are great communicators as mentioned before, but when it comes to emotions you have a hard way of communicating what it is that you feel at times, just because you can’t identify well to those emotions without analyzing why it is that you’re feeling this way and why it might not be rational of you to feel this way. You need to learn that these emotions are normal, what you feel is normal, and it is not mandatory to find a logical reason as to why you feel this way.
During this process, we highly advise you that you take your time to put at practice what you were blessed with which is communication, and even if this means communicating through writing. Start to right down what it is that you are feeling, write as if you were writing to that the person who has departed, or a letter to the person who has hurt you. Even if this means, that you must go somewhere, a short distance trip alone, in nature or in a nearby city to do so. When you are done with writing this all down, acknowledge your feelings and if you are ok with saving whatever it is that you’ve written do so, the next day, take a look at it to see how you still feel about it, and this will help you deal with your emotions as to why it is you are feeling what you feel.
You above all zodiac signs have a hard time with your emotions, most people think of you like that person that has it all together and who is always extremely playful, but deep down you know that isn’t always the case and you have a hard time showing the world that this isn’t always you.
Life’s only “pill” to curing a wound is time and it is not just time itself, but it’s what you do with your time that matters. In your case, Gemini, do not avoid your feelings by filling your schedule with fun activities, take the time to learn how to deal with your emotions rather than ignoring them.
