Virgo: How to heal your wound
So, we have all been there, we have all hit hard on the floor with so much pain that we have neve
thought we would be able to overcome. This pain can be a result of someone who has deeply betrayed
you, or from a permanent loss of someone who has departed forever, it can be because you’ve worked
so hard for something and that it has been delayed and for many other reasons. We have all had those
moments where we only wanted out, and there was no way in soothing the pain. It is interesting how
we are all different and we all react in different ways. Some people enjoy mourning alone, take time,
and think about certain situations, while others act impulsively and seek revenge. Others escape reality
by writing, reading, performing while others escape reality in unhealthy ways. Some of us are ok with
showing our pain to others and communicating it, while others are extremely embarrassed and
uncomfortable by doing so.
Some tend to think that the problem is in them, while others search to find a reason as to why this
happens.
The The bottom line is everyone hurts at some time, for some reason, and you are not alone. We all are
unique in how we suffer and express ourselves. Of course, there is no quick solution to when we are in
pain. Life does not provide you a quick pill that can ease the pain, however, life is not all about pain, it is
about the moments you create and how you choose to view each situation. Everything that happens to
us affects us as a person and our emotions towards others. It is important to accept that each painful
situation is a lesson, although it is better said than done.
In this article, we focus on strategies to ease your pain based on your zodiac sign. Now, of course, this
varies depending on other factors in your natal chart. In this case, we suggest that you consider your
Moon and your Mars, so take a look at those two planets in your natal charts and see what signs those
are in, this will help you get a better understanding, however, if you relate and identify yourself very
much with your solar sign you can consider that as well.
Virgo
If you are a Virgo, like Leo, you struggle with allowing to show others how you feel. However,
you also have a hard time dealing with pain because it is not in your nature to feel this way, it is
as if this is not logical or it is a bit odd.
This pain is related to something that was not part of your plan, but it was part of the Universe’s
plan and no matter how hard you may feel this pain, there is a lesson behind it. Which we are
sure with time, you will reveal.
Now, when you are hurt, as mentioned before it is as if it is not normal for you to show others
how confused you feel. You avoid this pain by working and sticking to your self-improving
routine. You might find the time to be with friends and show how strong you are, but suddenly
you will realize the reason why you are in so much pain and burst into tears.
Times like these, you need a friend more than ever Virgo and you need to accept that it is ok to
push the pause button on your strict routine and acknowledge your feelings. You are a very
rational and logical sign, you praise what is practical and dealing with your emotions isn’t an
easy task for you, and we all know that, however, you are great at realizing in what it is that you
need to self-improve in life. Reality is, feeling pain is part of anyone’s life, it is all of part of
blooming and developing in this beautiful world.
You have a hard time accepting change and anything that affects your routine, but you need to
accept that life is a journey of which you may find several obstacles that weren’t part of your
plan. Learn to breathe and to control your anxiety, nothing in life is perfect.
Learn to forgive and let go once and for all, this doesn’t mean that you need to act as if things are
normal, but to accept that this happened for a reason and there is nothing that you could’ve said
or done to change this.
The Universe writes your plan in cricket lines, providing you the lesson that you need to learn,
and it does not give anything that you can not handle. Trust that this happened for a reason, and
do not struggle with finding the logical reason behind it, instead learn how to deal with your
pain, surround yourself with your closest friends and express your true feelings. Forget about that
project that you need to work on and give yourself a break. Pamper yourself and allow others to
give you affection.
Life’s only “pill” to curing a wound is time and it is not just time itself, but it is what you do
with your time that matters. In your case Virgo, you need to learn that at some point in time, the
routine is not everything, and sticking to your plan might not be the right plan for you during this
healing process. Instead, schedule a day with your friends to express what you are going through,
schedule an appointment at a spa, and allow yourself to relax, forgive, and forget.
