Venus In Virgo Natal Chart
Virgo is the sixth sign of the zodiac. An earth sign ruled by mercury, the Virgo has the same love for communication and information as the Gemini, the energy just doesn’t manifest itself the same way.
I’d argue that the Virgo has the same intensity of energy as its neighboring sign Leo, it just manifests in a more cerebral way. The Virgo seems to have too much mental energy as it often turns into worrying, nitpicking, and overthinking.
Virgos are happiest when they have a role to play and something to focus all the mental energy on. Virgos are the unassuming, quiet, average looking person you’d walk by and wouldn’t notice. They show their appreciation for people with acts of service and believe it or not, nitpicking.
Virgo is the only sign in the zodiac represented by a woman and as such, their energy is the ultimate in femininity. Virgos are usually neat, methodical, and fussy if things aren’t how they believe they should be. They make great friends, and their always there for their families.
They may not be the most exciting sign in the zodiac but they always manage to leave a positive on the majority of the people they come into contact. Once they’re relaxed, they can be quite entertaining.
Dating Someone With This Placement
Dating someone with this placement will present a unique set of challenges but if you’re up for the challenge, it’s much greater later.
This placement isn’t exactly the romantic type, and they can be undemonstrative. If they like you, you’ll know by acts of service. When this placement cares for someone, they’ll go out of their way to do a million little things like pick up groceries for you, clean up, cook, and any other practical, helpful activates they can fulfil for you.
Don’t forget to acknowledge these acts of service and appreciate them and you’ll have a happy helper. If you want to put a smile on this placements face, help them get out of their own head. They’re constantly thinking which translates into not being present in the moment often.
This is an earth sign, so all things titillating to the five senses will pull the Virgo out of their heads. Nice music, candles, a massage, and good food will bring your Virgo in Venus present and in return they’ll make you glad you did.
This placement has intense emotional energy buried beneath their cool non-emotional façade. If you take your time to get to know this placement and work to open them up, they’ll turn into the gift that keeps on giving.
These people aim to please and they’re humbled by the fact that you’re willing to engage them enough to tap into their emotional power. They know it isn’t an easy task. Once they’ve declared you worthy, and they’ve opened up to you, they’re do pretty much anything to please you however they can figure out how to.
They’ll take that intense mental energy, and apply it to making sure you’re satisfied and happy and they will stop at nothing to fulfill that task.
Patience is key with this placement as nitpicking and fussing is part of the way they show they care. Being harped on and criticized will no doubt become annoying and you’ll eventually feel the urge to lash out. Just remember is you do, you’ll surely severely hurt the feelings of a person who is simply trying to show you they care.
Having This Placement
If you have this placement, try to relax a little. Sometimes, trying to help isn’t the best way to go about it. Sometimes it’s ok to let the chips fall where they may. You don’t have to stress yourself out about everything. Learn to express how you feel and you’ll get much better results.
Pointing out things that can be improved constantly may feel like you’re being helpful but to others, it can come across as attacking. When your feelings are hurt, instead of turning the relationship into a battle field, show a little vulnerability.
This is an earthy placement, meaning you have the ability to be a powerful lover lying dormant in you. Open up and follow the intensity of your emotions and see where they take you. Confidence plays a big part in your relationships or lack thereof.
Be cautious of people taking advantage of your helpful nature or trying to exploit you. If you do find yourself in a situation where you’re being taken advantage of and or exploited, that’s ok. It happens to the best of us. Don’t take it personally and develop a wounded personality.
The lack of emotional demonstration can give the impression of you being cold to some. Don’t wait until a situation has gotten out of hand to show your emotional side. Emotions don’t make a person weak but pretending you don’t care as much as you know you do is a different story.
Ultimately, you need to get in touch with yourself and learn to be open and honest to harness the power that is buried deep within you. This placement has the potential to perfect love and have all of its dreams manifest into reality. For Venus in Virgo, you’re your own biggest enemy.
