Lilith in Gemini, Lilith in the 4th House

Lilith in Gemini

Lilith in Gemini feels shame around speaking. They feel like they’re either talking too much or not enough. It always seems to be a tug of war between expressing themselves and staying silent. They can fear not being considered intelligent, and they also are a bit jealous of others that freely speak their mind. They need to work on self acceptance. They can feel out of control because they don’t have a proper outlet to express themselves. Lilith in Gemini can lead to babbling instead of taking the time to properly form their thoughts. This can be a problem because they desperately want to speak their mind, but feel blocked from doing so. On the other extreme, they may try to repress their speaking, but that just leads to it being bottled up and they will need to express it sooner or later. They are very observant. They are good at understanding social dynamics and understanding how others react, even if they aren’t necessarily the best communicators themselves.

4th House

Keywords: Keywords for the 4th house include home, home life, parents, ancestry, relatives, privacy, birth place, nurturing, self-care, self-love, security, and spiritual initiation. 

Angular House Type: An Angular house type means it is ruled by a cardinal sign. In this case Cancer is the cardinal water sign ruling the 4th house. 

The 4th house in astrology is symbolic of our most private self. It is the part that is the hardest to express, representing things we often keep hidden from others. This house can also be representative of one’s parents, typically one or the other. It can represent what the earliest relationships in one’s life were life and home life environment. The 4th house is representative of one’s relationship with authority, thus the association with a parental figure. 

The areas of life the 4th house oversees include the ways in which you create a home for yourself. It looks at how important having a home base is for you. The 4th house is the security blanket of your natal chart. The sign on the 4th house is symbolic of how you take care of your deepest needs, where you need the most nurturing, support, and comfort. If you have an emphasis of planets in the 4th house in your natal chart this may indicate you tend to be shy or keep things to yourself, only revealing your true self to a select few individuals.