Lilith in Gemini, Lilith in the 10th House

Lilith in Gemini

Lilith in Gemini feels shame around speaking. They feel like they’re either talking too much or not enough. It always seems to be a tug of war between expressing themselves and staying silent. They can fear not being considered intelligent, and they also are a bit jealous of others that freely speak their mind. They need to work on self acceptance. They can feel out of control because they don’t have a proper outlet to express themselves. Lilith in Gemini can lead to babbling instead of taking the time to properly form their thoughts. This can be a problem because they desperately want to speak their mind, but feel blocked from doing so. On the other extreme, they may try to repress their speaking, but that just leads to it being bottled up and they will need to express it sooner or later. They are very observant. They are good at understanding social dynamics and understanding how others react, even if they aren’t necessarily the best communicators themselves.

10th House

Keywords: The keywords associated with the 10th house are work, career, parents, authority, government, leadership, fame, notoriety, legacy, and public life. 

Angular House Type: An Angular house type is ruled by a cardinal sign. Capricorn is the cardinal earth sign ruling the 10th house. 

The 10th house in astrology is symbolic of your life in the public’s eye and your career path. This area of the chart is symbolic of the authorities in your life; parents, bosses, and leaders. It shows you how your relationship with your parents has played out and how easily you accept or reject authority in your life. The 10th house is where we meet or defy expectations for our career, family, and achievements. This house is also related to notoriety and legacy. 

The 10th house is allowing you to better understand the dynamics of power and control. At times we exert little control over what the world or others think of us. We can construct our identity but often the person we are trying to portray is clouded by the worlds view of us. The 10th house is giving you the opportunity to take ownership of your career, who you want to be, and what you want people to remember about you.