Libra: How to heal your wound
So, we have all been there, we have all hit hard on the floor with so much pain that we have never
thought we would be able to overcome. This pain can be a result of someone who has deeply betrayed
you, or from a permanent loss of someone who has departed forever, it can be because you’ve worked
so hard for something and that it has been delayed and for many other reasons. We have all had those
moments where we only wanted out, and there was no way in soothing the pain. It is interesting how
we are all different and we all react in different ways. Some people enjoy mourning alone, take time,
and think about certain situations, while others act impulsively and seek revenge. Others escape reality
by writing, reading, performing while others escape reality in unhealthy ways. Some of us are ok with
showing our pain to others and communicating it, while others are extremely embarrassed and
uncomfortable by doing so.
Some tend to think that the problem is in them, while others search to find a reason as to why this
happens.
The bottom line is everyone hurts at some time, for some reason, and you are not alone. We all are
unique in how we suffer and express ourselves. Of course, there is no quick solution to when we are in
pain. Life does not provide you a quick pill that can ease the pain, however, life is not all about pain, it is
about the moments you create and how you choose to view each situation. Everything that happens to
us affects us as a person and our emotions towards others. It is important to accept that each painful
situation is a lesson, although it is better said than done.
In this article, we focus on strategies to ease your pain based on your zodiac sign. Now, of course, this
varies depending on other factors in your natal chart. In this case, we suggest that you consider your
Moon and your Mars, so take a look at those two planets in your natal charts and see what signs those
are in, this will help you get a better understanding, however, if you relate and identify yourself very
much with your solar sign you can consider that as well.
Libra
If you are a Libra, nothing brings you more pain than feeling how unfair a situation might be.
You above all signs, praise what is fair, and will go out of your way to defend what you believe
is fair, even if that means that you need to turn your back on people who you are close to.
When you are in pain Libra, you struggle with balancing and analyzing what happened. Matter
of fact, you will replay the scenes and voices in your head repeatedly. You have a hard time
struggling in deciding on what was fair, you initially try to understand other points of view and
why people did what they did, etc. Driving you crazy! You are already a very indecisive sign,
however, when you are hurt, you become very insecure, having a hard time confronting whatever
it is that is bothering you.
So, like other signs, you tend to avoid this emptiness that you feel in the core of you, and you try
to escape this for a while through partying or being with friends. Now, this only happens for a
while before you realize that you now need to balance things and go back to normal.
Despite your pain and insecurity during these times, you are great at realizing that you cannot
control everything. However, when there is something that you can, you might tend to have a
selective memory associated with your pain. So, during these times, we ask that you try to
balance things as you usually do when you are not hurt. This strategy can help. Take a piece of
paper and pen, divide the paper into two sections and write what was bad in this whole situation
and on the side what was good. You usually mentally do this on your daily basis, however, with
the pain and the scenes popping in your head, this becomes a difficult task for you, by writing
this down, you will now add a visual aspect to this helping you decide how you feel about this,
and why you are feeling the way you are feeling.
Nothing hurts you more than to experience an unfair situation, or to see other people you love
struggle with an unfair situation, however, you above all signs learn and create your identity
through meeting several people in your life, and at some point you will accept that these people
come in and out of your life allowing you to learn about yourself and above all to love yourself
for who you are.
Accept that unfortunately in life, not everything is fair and that there isn’t always something that
you can do to change that.
You aren’t aggressive towards the people that hurt you, but you have this bad habit of expressing
how you feel about what they’ve done to you behind their backs, and sometimes this can lead
you into creating bad connections and drama. Instead, write down on a piece of paper what you
feel about the person at that exact time and burn the paper when you are done, and if you do feel
the need to speak about this please do so with someone that you can confide in 100%.
Life’s only “pill” to curing a wound is time and it is not just time itself, but it is what you do
with your time that matters.