So, we have all been there, we have all hit hard on the floor with so much pain that we have never
thought we would be able to overcome. This pain can be a result of someone who has deeply betrayed
you, or from a permanent loss of someone who has departed forever, it can be because you’ve worked
so hard for something and that it has been delayed and for many other reasons. We have all had those
moments where we only wanted out, and there was no way in soothing the pain. It is interesting how
we are all different and we all react in different ways. Some people enjoy mourning alone, take time,
and think about certain situations, while others act impulsively and seek revenge. Others escape reality
by writing, reading, performing while others escape reality in unhealthy ways. Some of us are ok with
showing our pain to others and communicating it, while others are extremely embarrassed and
uncomfortable by doing so.
Some tend to think that the problem is in them, while others search to find a reason as to why this
happens.
The bottom line is everyone hurts at some time, for some reason, and you are not alone. We all are
unique in how we suffer and express ourselves. Of course, there is no quick solution to when we are in
pain. Life does not provide you a quick pill that can ease the pain, however, life is not all about pain, it is
about the moments you create and how you choose to view each situation. Everything that happens to
us affects us as a person and our emotions towards others. It is important to accept that each painful
situation is a lesson, although it is better said than done.
On this article, we focus on strategies to ease your pain based on your zodiac sign. Now, of course, this
varies depending on other factors in your natal chart. In this case, we suggest that you consider your
Moon and your Mars, so take a look at those two planets in your natal charts and see what signs those
are in, this will help you get a better understanding, however, if you relate and identify yourself very
much with your solar sign you can consider that as well.
Aries
If you are an Aries, I am sure you can relate very much to this description. When you are hurt, it’s as if
someone has punched you in the face, even if they haven’t. Your pride does not allow you to manifest
why you are hurt in a quiet calm way. Your temper and force need to be at use most of the time, you
have this urge to let all of your anger out, and let’s be honest here, you’d love to hurt the person who
did this to you, but of course, that isn’t the right thing to do. If you are like most Aries I know, you want
to fight the first person you see, and it is normal to feel angry. Since you are ruled by Mars the planet of
War, of course, you need to battle and conquer, but let’s face the truth, by getting physically into a fight,
you will end up with more damage and more trouble. So before taking that impulsive step we consider
that you put your rage towards other activities such as sports that involve competition, screaming, and
getting all that negative anger out of you. I am sure that by the second you listen to some music through
your headphones and go outside to take a simple walk or to run that you will feel immediately better.
Now, of course, we are not considering that this will solve immediately the pain that you are feeling,
however, as we have said before, there is no easy way out of pain. It is learning to accept the fact that
you cannot change what has happened, accept it as a lesson and learn to move on through what you do
with your time.
Your passion and competitive ways are useful while practicing sports, you were granted with the gift of
going to war without any second thoughts and this is exactly what you need, take the time to search for
sports or any physical activity that will tire you by the end of the day, and allow you to drain all of that
anger and rage by the end of the day.
Take the time to acknowledge what it is that you are feeling, write it down even if you have to, don’t try
to blame others for your pain, and accept that everyone surrounding you is not part of the problem. We
know how hurtful you can be towards other people that have nothing to do with what you are going
through. So, be careful to not hurt others as well. You above all zodiac signs, you are very impatient and
have a hard time dealing with negative feelings because you seek quick solutions, however, you have a
great determination that many desire, and when you are determined to do whatever you want to do, or
to overcome any obstacle you have everything that it takes to do so.
Aries, believe in yourself more than ever and do not second guess your value based on your pain, and do
not find the need to show that you have strength by getting into unnecessary fights. Instead, use your
will power towards healthy activities and we assure you that you will be successful.
As we all know, time is the only true “pill” in life to cure a wound, but it is what you do with the time
that allows yourself to heal.
