Capricorn: How to heal your wound
So, we have all been there, we have all hit hard on the floor with so much pain that we have never
thought we would be able to overcome. This pain can be a result of someone who has deeply betrayed
you, or from a permanent loss of someone who has departed forever, it can be because you’ve worked
so hard for something and that it has been delayed and for many other reasons. We have all had those
moments where we only wanted out, and there was no way in soothing the pain. It is interesting how
we are all different and we all react in different ways. Some people enjoy mourning alone, take time,
and think about certain situations, while others act impulsively and seek revenge. Others escape reality
by writing, reading, performing while others escape reality in unhealthy ways. Some of us are ok with
showing our pain to others and communicating it, while others are extremely embarrassed and
uncomfortable by doing so.
Some tend to think that the problem is in them, while others search to find a reason as to why this
happens.
The bottom line is everyone hurts at some time, for some reason, and you are not alone. We all are
unique in how we suffer and express ourselves. Of course, there is no quick solution to when we are in
pain. Life does not provide you a quick pill that can ease the pain, however, life is not all about pain, it is
about the moments you create and how you choose to view each situation. Everything that happens to
us affects us as a person and our emotions towards others. It is important to accept that each painful
situation is a lesson, although it is better said than done.
In this article, we focus on strategies to ease your pain based on your zodiac sign. Now, of course, this
varies depending on other factors in your natal chart. In this case, we suggest that you consider your
Moon and your Mars, so take a look at those two planets in your natal charts and see what signs those
are in, this will help you get a better understanding, however, if you relate and identify yourself very
much with your solar sign you can consider that as well.
Capricorn
If you’re a Capricorn, you can relate to how hard it is to express yourself when you are hurt, out of all
the signs you have the hardest time letting go of whatever it is that is bothering you, and speaking about
it. You allow others to worry about you, especially because you will not share or allow anyone to know
what it is that is bothering you.
You feel embarrassed towards negative feelings, it is as if you feel as if you are not disciplined, or correct
to feel this way, you feel as if these emotions are not normal. Times like these, you feel most insecure,
more than you usually do.
When you are not feeling well, you are the kind of person who will lock those feelings in your internal
safe, not allowing others to comfort you. You fear feeling vulnerable or the need of having someone to
support you. You feel as if you have failed yourself and this is not the case.
It’s important for you to realize once and for all that everyone sometimes hits hard with emotions and
open wounds, and that it is normal to look for help, you are not in this alone and this does not mean
that you’ve failed. This is just an obstacle and just like every storm goes away, this will too.
Allow yourself to express your emotions, even if you are not ready to share these feelings with another
person, write these feelings down, allow yourself to shout or even break plates. It is ok to lose control of
yourself at times. You are not a robot, you are human flesh with emotions, allow yourself to release the
pain and forget about discipline for a while.
Above all, accept that this is a process and that everyone has felt this way too. Accept that this is normal
and that this does not mean that you have failed yourself. It is important to feel the pain to feel joy to
the fullest at some point in time. Accept that not everything is under your control, the matter of fact,
there are things that no one can control in life, and every obstacle is an opportunity to learn.
It is hard for you to accept that this is part of your lesson here on earth because you can be very
skeptical at times, but trust that this pain will go away and that this has all happened for a reason. Open
your heart to the universe’s energy and message. Try to meditate, and you will feel the vibrating energy
that will soothe you through this painful process.
You know that accumulating to yourself whatever it is that you are feeling, will lead you to only feeling
more insecure, it’s as if during this time you lock yourself in your bubble not allowing others to care
about you, and we all know that that’s not possible. People that care and love you worry about you,
allow them to be there for you when you need it the most. Some people communicate feelings through
writing, others through communicating with others. Find what strategy works for you the most, but do
not keep the pain all to yourself.
Life’s only “pill” to curing a wound is time and it is not just time itself, but it is what you do
with your time that matters. In your case, Capricorn, accept that this will change you, and make
you stronger, allow others to help you through this process. You are not in this alone.