Venus in Pisces – Men and Women

Venus In Pisces Natal Chart

Pisces is the final water sign and the last sign of the zodiac. Ruled by Neptune, this sign is deeply immersed in mysticism and emotional overflow. 

Pisces people are first and foremost, emotional. They process life through their emotions and view the world through an emotional lens. Pisces aren’t always equipped to deal with this powerful flow of emotion, resulting in escapist behaviors. 

Another behavior manifesting as a result of their uncontrollable emotional power is moodiness. It’s as if they never fully recognize their emotional power for what it is, a compass to guide them through life.

They make attempts to live a more mental life often conflicting with how they feel resulting in turmoil. When they’re young, they’re sweet natured, kind, and loving. As they age, the harsh realities of life change their disposition. 

They can develop a mean nature and become manipulative if left unchecked to develop in a harsher environment. Once they decide to respect their emotional state, they’re prone to deep emotional insight including full blown psychic ability. 

This sign has the ability to transcend what our senses pick up and become a unifying bridge between worlds. Pisces people often have other worldly, unexplainable experiences but they don’t take them seriously. 

For Pisces, the key to life is to accept themselves wholly and respect who they are.

Dating Someone With This Placement

When Venus is in Pisces, buckle up for a wild ride. These people are highly emotional and it can go both ways. They can seem like two different people at times. They aren’t simply moody, they’re intensely emotional.

In relationships, they can be unpredictable with little explanation. Sometimes these people just have a feeling about something and follow it and you’ll find yourself dealing with a fussy mate for an unknown reason.

If you want to help settle this placement down a bit, help them learn to meditate and develop their mental and emotional focus to help funnel that emotional energy. The same thing that makes them dangerous in relationships is the same thing that makes them excellent partners.

This placement likes to dream when it comes to love so traditional romance will get you everywhere. This placement likes to be loved and cared for as well. Candle lit dinners, public displays of affection, and love notes will put a smile on their faces.

This placement processes relationships with their feelings so pay attention and don’t do anything you know will upset them. Whatever you hope to gain by playing games with this placement isn’t worth the wrath that will follow once they figure out something is up and they’re emotionally hurt.

They don’t have a problem following their emotions to dark places. You’re going to have to be the level headed voice of reason between the two of you and that doesn’t mean you’re in charge or you’re always right, it means you need to be able to focus enough to keep things from getting out of hand.

Check your ego at the door and always keep in mind what’s important or you could end up locked in an emotionally draining war you aren’t equipped to win. When this placement loves you, they’ll do anything for you, and you can do no wrong. Once they’ve decided they’re tired of you, anything can happen. 

Having This Placement 

If your Venus is in Pisces, consider love a learning experience. You have a deep desire to connect and live happily ever after but this disposition makes you vulnerable to predators. You’re going to have to accept the fact that your strength in relationships is also your weakness and guard it accordingly. 

When you meet someone, pay attention to the red flags they’re a sign of what’s to come. You can’t change who a person is with love, they are who they are. There is a person out there who is complete and waiting on you. 

You have strong intuition and in some cases psychic ability when it comes to love and relationships, use your gift to your advantage. Learn to quiet the inner noise and hear yourself.

Everything you need to be successful in love is already in you. Don’t allow anyone else to convince you against what you feel is right. When you don’t follow your intuition or feelings, things turn out bad. 

As far as relationships go, at any point in your life you can decide to listen to yourself and do what you know you should be doing and things would be much better from that point on.

If you find yourself repeating the same destructive behaviors or attracting the same poisonous personalities, take some time to yourself to recover from the emotional damage that has become a destructive force in your life.

When you’re hurt emotionally, it runs deep and has the potential to be brutal, treat it like a broken leg. If you broke your leg would you go running on it?

If your heart is broken don’t jump into another situation with someone else until you’ve completely healed. If you do, you’ll just cultivate more of the same. 

You’re artistic and you need an outlet to express yourself. When your relationships become overwhelming, try painting, or some other form of expression. Try to express yourself in a healthy way.

If you catch yourself sabotaging the relationship you’re in, it’s time to get out. Knowing when to let go is a difficult task for this placement and one you’d greatly benefit from learning to develop. 

You have a tendency to stay too long which gives way to possibly detrimental situations. Once things go bad, they don’t get better. Hanging in there and standing by a troubled partner is admirable and in some cases it’s the right thing to do but most of the time, it isn’t.

You don’t have to sacrifice yourself to have a successful union. A relationship should add to what’s there, not chip away at it or make things worse. 

Put yourself first, take yourself seriously, and give yourself the time you need to develop to your full potential. 

Your best Venus matches are; Scorpio, Sagittarius, Taurus, and Cancer.