Venus In Libra Natal Chart
Ruled by Venus, Libra is the seventh sign of the zodiac. This air sign is all about relationships, beauty, and all things love related.
Libras embody an energy that makes them attractive beyond physicality. They have a charm and grace that draws people into them. Usually, they’re polite to a fault and prefer to not make waves if at all possible.
They’d much rather go with the flow and see how things play out, quietly observing and taking mental notes of their environment, weighing things on their mental scale. Libra is the sign after Virgo, and some of that exhausting mental energy that makes Virgos so infamous rears its ugly head here.
If given too many options, Libras have been known to freeze in the face of making decisions. Even after they make decisions, they weigh the pros and cons endlessly going back and forth wondering if they made the right decision or not.
Emotionally reserved, they expect people in their inner circle to be able to pick up on what they want and or need rather than having to tell them. Under stress, Libras can become resentful and calculating. Libras need their environment to radiate fairness and balance or they can become worried balls of nervousness.
Dating Someone With This Placement
Venus in Libra is exalted in this placement meaning you get a double dose of all things Venus. This placement is all about love and relationships and they have the energy to pour into their union. They’ll work hard to make a relationship successful and would rather be in a relationship that isn’t exactly perfect than to not be with anyone at all.
Your Venus in Libra will be a beautiful, charming, charismatic breath of fresh air. When balanced, these people radiate an aura of serenity. Compliments go a long way with this placement. They also appreciate romance in the traditional sense.
This is an air sign placement so unless other aspects of the chart indicate a more sensual, earthy nature, this placement is stimulated by a mental connection. When you’re being romantic you want to focus on the mental and visual. Intelligence and good conversation will draw this placement into you to find out more about you.
Throw in a little mystery and this placement will be enamored. Venus in Libra isn’t up to the task of being the boss. They’d much rather be led and taken care of, you’re going to have to be the leader. Pay attention to this placement and after time, you’ll know what to do and what not to do which will make them appreciate you that much more. When there’s an issue, you’re going to have to sniff it out.
They don’t like confrontation, and would rather sit on a nail than get up and cause a fuss. It’s your job to figure it out and rectify the situation before they become unbalanced. If you can get them out of their heads and into the moment, they’ll find you addicting.
Their minds are over stimulated and they’d love to be able to shut them off, they just can’t. If you can guide them into reality and get them to live in the moment you’ll have a friend for life.
This placement has been known to be superficial so gifts and public displays of affection are all pluses. If you having a disagreement, keep it at home. To disagree or cause disharmony in a public setting would be nightmarish for this placement.
Having This Placement
This is a beautiful placement for love if you’d allow it to manifest. Venus in Libra is the perfect placement for all things relationships but overthinking things has the potential to erode what you want so badly.
You manifest into your existence what you think about most. If you’re always worried about things going sideways, you’ll figure out a way to make that happen. You can become judgmental and or unforgiving to your partner when things don’t go your way. Keep in mind, your partner is human and will inevitably make mistakes.
Don’t view their mistakes as a personal attack. Instead, develop your communicative skills and learn to tell them the problem. Avoiding confrontation can be a smart move but sometimes you have to be willing to break a few eggs to make an omelet.
Remember, trying to predict what you believe will happen if you do or say a certain thing is your attempt at being psychic. You don’t actually know how a scenario will play out. When you become worried or unbalanced because of a situation you perceive to be unfair or just plain not right and you don’t say anything, you’re causing your own anxiety.
Sometimes, in your effort to avoid confrontation, you have the tendency to bend the truth a little. Small lies can have a huge impact once they build up. If you really want a deep, long lasting connection, you’re going to have to learn to trust your partner with the truth. If they can’t handle it, they aren’t the right person for you.
And give yourself a little credit. Few placements think about love and relationships as much as you do. Trust your decision making ability. Once you’ve made a decision about love, go with it. There are pros and cons to every decision you make in life; agonizing over them won’t change a thing.
With all that out of the way, enjoy yourself. Enjoy the process of dating, meeting people, and getting to know them. Don’t take anything too seriously you can handle anything thrown at you. When you’re feeling intense in either direction break out a pen and pad.
Jotting down how you feel would be really beneficial. When you go back to see how you thought about things you’ll gain insight into who you really are. You’ll begin the start of the most beneficial relationship a person can have and that’s with yourself.
If you develop that relationship, you’ll be a better partner to whomever is lucky enough to have been graced with your presence.
Your best Venus matches are: Gemini, Sagittarius, and Aquarius.
